34
Harold Searles, βPhases of Patient-Therapist Interaction in the Psychotherapy of Schizophreniaβ, pp. 538β539.
35
Geneen Roth, Feeding the Hungry Heart, p. 3.
36
Π‘ΠΌ. Carolyn W. Sherif, Β«Needed Concepts in the Study of Gender IdentityΒ»: pp. 375β398. Π¨Π΅ΡΠΈΡ ΠΏΠΈΡΠ΅Ρ: Β«ΠΠΎΡΠ»Π΅Π΄Π½ΠΈΠΉ ΡΡΠ°Π²Π½ΠΈΡΠ΅Π»ΡΠ½ΡΠΉ Π°Π½Π°Π»ΠΈΠ· ΡΠΎΡΠΈΠ°Π»ΡΠ½ΠΎ-ΠΏΠΎΠ»ΠΎΠ²ΡΡ ΠΊΠ°ΡΠ΅Π³ΠΎΡΠΈΠΉ ΠΈ Π½ΠΎΡΠΌ Π°Π½ΡΡΠΎΠΏΠΎΠ»ΠΎΠ³ΠΈΠΈ (Quinn, 1977; Whyte, 1978) ΠΏΡΠΎΡΡΠ½ΡΠ΅Ρ, ΡΡΠΎ ΡΠΎΡΠΈΠΎΠΊΡΠ»ΡΡΡΡΠ½Π°Ρ ΠΎΡΠ½ΠΎΠ²Π° ΠΏΠΎΠ»Π° Π½Π΅ ΡΠ²Π»ΡΠ΅ΡΡΡ βΠ΅Π΄ΠΈΠ½ΡΠΌβ ΠΈΠ»ΠΈ ΠΏΡΠΎΡΡΡΠΌ Π½Π°ΠΈΠ²Π½ΡΠΌ ΠΏΡΠ΅Π΄ΡΡΠ°Π²Π»Π΅Π½ΠΈΠ΅ΠΌ. Π‘ΠΎΠ³Π»Π°ΡΠ½ΠΎ Rosaldo (1980), ΠΏΠΎΠ» β ΡΡΠΎ βΡΠ»ΠΎΠΆΠ½ΡΠΉ ΡΠ΅Π·ΡΠ»ΡΡΠ°Ρ Π²ΠΎΠ·Π΄Π΅ΠΉΡΡΠ²ΠΈΡ ΠΌΠ½ΠΎΠΆΠ΅ΡΡΠ²Π° ΡΠΎΡΠΈΠ°Π»ΡΠ½ΡΡ ΡΠΈΠ»β, ΠΊΠΎΡΠΎΡΡΠ΅ ΡΠ°Π·Π»ΠΈΡΠ°ΡΡΡΡ Π² ΡΠ°Π·Π½ΡΡ ΠΎΠ±ΡΠ΅ΡΡΠ²Π°Ρ ΠΈ Π² ΡΠ°Π·Π½ΡΠ΅ ΠΈΡΡΠΎΡΠΈΡΠ΅ΡΠΊΠΈΠ΅ ΡΠΏΠΎΡ ΠΈ. Whyte (1978) ΡΡΠ²Π΅ΡΠΆΠ΄Π°Π΅Ρ, ΡΡΠΎ Π½Π΅ ΡΡΡΠ΅ΡΡΠ²ΡΠ΅Ρ ΡΠ½ΠΈΠ²Π΅ΡΡΠ°Π»ΡΠ½ΠΎΠΉ ΡΠΎΡΠΈΠ°Π»ΡΠ½ΠΎΠΉ ΠΊΠ°ΡΠ΅Π³ΠΎΡΠΈΠΈ βΠΆΠ΅Π½ΡΠΈΠ½Π°β Π² ΠΎΡΠ΄Π΅Π»ΡΠ½ΠΎΡΡΠΈ ΠΎΡ ΠΎΠΏΡΠ΅Π΄Π΅Π»Π΅Π½Π½ΠΎΠ³ΠΎ ΠΊΡΠ»ΡΡΡΡΠ½ΠΎ-ΠΈΡΡΠΎΡΠΈΡΠ΅ΡΠΊΠΎΠ³ΠΎ ΠΊΠΎΠ½ΡΠ΅ΠΊΡΡΠ°Β» (p. 377).
37
Bowlby, Attachment and Loss, vol. I.
38
Π’ΠΎ Π΅ΡΡΡ Β«ΠΌΡΠΆΡΠΈΠ½Π°Β» ΠΈ Β«ΠΆΠ΅Π½Π°Β», Π° Π½Π΅ Β«ΠΌΡΠΆΒ» ΠΈ Β«ΠΆΠ΅Π½Π°Β» ΠΈ Π½Π΅ Β«ΠΌΡΠΆΡΠΈΠ½Π°Β» ΠΈ Β«ΠΆΠ΅Π½ΡΠΈΠ½Π°Β». Π― ΡΠΆΠ΅ Π½Π΅ Π³ΠΎΠ²ΠΎΡΡ ΠΎΠ± ΠΎΡΠΎΠ±Π΅Π½Π½ΠΎ Π½Π΅ΠΏΡΠΈΡΡΠ½ΠΎΠΌ Π΄Π»Ρ ΡΠ΅ΠΌΠΈΠ½ΠΈΡΡΠΎΠΊ ΠΏΠ΅ΡΠ΅Π²ΠΎΠ΄Π΅ Β«ΡΠ΅Π»ΠΎΠ²Π΅ΠΊΒ» ΠΈ Β«ΠΆΠ΅Π½Π°Β». β ΠΡΠΈΠΌ. ΠΏΠ΅Ρ.
39
Albert Alvarez, Life After Marriage: Love in an Age of Divorce, pp. 117β118.
40
Stevens, Archetypes, pp. 174β209.
41
Ibid., p. 187.
42
Ibid., p. 189.
43
Ibid.
44
Ibid., p.191.
45
S. H. Budman, M. J. Bennett and M. J. Wisneski, βA n Adult Developmental Model of Short-term Group Psychotherapyβ, in Simon Budman, ed., Forms of Brief Therapy, pp. 305β342.
46
E. Jaques, βDeath and the Mid-life Crisisβ, pp. 502β514.
47
D. G. Gutrnann: βParenthood: A Key to the Comparative Study of the Life Cycleβ, in N. Datan and L. Ginsberg, eds., Developmental Psychology.
48
Jessie Bernard, The Future of Marriage.
49
Jean Piaget, The Moral Judgment of the Child.
50
Arthur Coleman and Libby Coleman, Earth Father, Sky Father: The Changing Concept of Fathering, p. 73.
51
John Money, βDifferentiation of Gender Identityβ, p. 20.
52
Ibid., p. 13.
53
H. F. Harlow and M. K. Harlow, βLearning to Loveβ, pp. 244β272.
54
Margaret Mead, Growing up in New Guinea, The South Seas: Studies of Adolescence and Sex in Three Primitive Societies, vol. 2.
55
Coleman and Coleman, Earth Father, Sky Father, p. 170.
56
Thomas Allen is Associate Professor of Counseling Psychology, Graduate Institute of Education, Washington University, St. Louis.
57
Carl J. Sager, Marriage Contracts and Couple Therapy.
58
William Goodheart, βTheory of Analytic Interactionβ, pp. 2β39
59
Robert Jay Lifton, The Life of the Seif. Toward a New Psychology, p. 35.
60
Philip Blumstein and Pepper Schwartz, American Couples.
61
Ibid., p. 320.
62
Lifton, The Life of the Self, p. 101.
63
Ibid., p. 103.